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To take part in the BeingAnOnly Online Community Discussion Boards, you must first be a BeingAnOnly Online Community Member. The annual subscription fee is £12.

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What can I do on the Boards?
You can swap notes on:
your experience of growing up as an only
how it is to be in relationships as an only
caring for elderly parents
being orphaned
being an adopted only
parenting an only child

You can:
look for a soul mate
meet up for a walk or social get together
fix play dates for your child with other mums

How secure is it?
Email addresses are not shown so your privacy is protected, you can message members privately and you can choose which threads you'd like to be kept up to date with, so you don't get deluged with posts if you don't want to. There are no random ads.

Can I use the BeingAnOnly Community without being a member?
As a guest you can look. To be able to post and take part, you need to become a member of BeingAnOnly.

No computer?
Even if you don't have a computer of your own, you can always log in to the BeingAnOnly Online Community at an internet cafe or your local library. It's easy and by far the liveliest way to be in touch. There are other members online, who you can ask for technical guidance too.

Where are you?
Wherever you are in the world, the UK, US, Europe, South America, Africa, the Far East or Australia, you can join.

How much is it to join?
Fees are set in £ Sterling, but if you pay online with Paypal, it will do the currency conversion for you, so it doesn't matter what your local money is. The annual subscription is £12.


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I lost my password, what can I do?
If you forget your password, you can click on the 'Forgotten Your Password' link on any page that requires you to fill in your password. This will bring up a page where you should enter your registered email address, and an email will be sent to that address instantly, with instructions for resetting your password. Create a new password and log in using it. Make sure your password is no longer then 8 letters!

Beginners Guide and FAQs

Full instructions and frequently asked questions on how to get the most out of the Boards. Where? On the Board itself.
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